An Ode to Minny, our Cat

This short tale is about our small, friendly kitten named Minny.

Some animals come and go, but Minny is here to stay forever. As previously detailed in this blog post, we have had many animals just live in our yard. Justin and I have literally had a rooster, rabbits, cats, dogs, and even mice. The mice were the least welcome. Our neighbor even keeps bees- but don’t even get me started on Achiko, our neighbor. One of our top favorites has been Spot, our dog for just a couple of months. I still maintain my opinion that he was the sweetest puppy that ever lived- wherever he is now.

However, my heart has opened its doors to my newest love- Minny. She was born in our yard probably sometime in the late summer of 2018. The mother cat has always perused in our yard, with her husband and possibly her father-in-law in-toe. The litter, to our knowledge, was small. Three beautiful kittens huddled around, being nursed by mama cat for what seemed like weeks on end. Two kittens looked identical and the other one looked oddly very different. The whitewashed kitten was the strangest of them all, and sadly, was probably born blind. Our best guess is that she had joined her yard siblings in animal heaven. The other black kitten vanished and was never to be seen again. And then, only one remained.

The one that did not bite the dust was, thereafter, named Minny. At first, Minny was shy and very much a wallflower. She would hide in bushes whenever she would see the tips of my or Justin’s shoe exit the front door. She would scatter like the wind under some leaves behind the wooden bench in our yard. Minny, as she would have it, wanted to avoid human contact or interaction, as much as cat-ly possible. In her tiny strong-willed kitty heart, she would not be petted.

Justin, a lover of animals, wanted to provide his humanly love and compassion towards this scaredy-cat. The mother cat could not be bothered and daddy cat and grumpy cat grampa were they “leave me alone and don’t step on my yard” type of kitties. But Justin thought to himself, “this one will be hugged and loved.” So each day, Justin would tip-toe to the little, future-lovable kitten. Little by little, tiny Minny would ruffle some the leaves and have herself some sneak peeks to learn more about approachable Justin.

After a month of courtship, Minny began to approach Justin and then me. You see, I had taken a little vacation, so I was not around for this kitty-courtship. When I had returned, I saw Minny in Justin’s arms and I was surprised to see another love embrace my husband’s arms to warmly. Minny looked up with her bright olive-green eyes and purred the softest “meow” that has touched my ears. I was in love.

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However, like Romeo and Juliet, my love is forbidden. Bound by different circumstances, my love is limited due something doctors like to call “allergies.” Minny’s dander, harmless to Justin, steeps deep down to my chest and causes a rash when I’m exposed for long periods of time. Unoriginally, I sneeze and become stuffy. Minny’s adventures stop at our front door. She is not allowed to step beyond the threshold of my front door.

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I pay the price from time to time, I give her little kitten massages. I immediately scrub my hands with water and soap and remove any evidence so my lungs would be none the wiser. Minny purrs unknowingly and how I can explain to such a cute kitten that she cannot zig-zag around my feet and touch my pant legs continuously? I literally have no sense of discipline and so I call out to Justin, “Can you pick up Minny and make sure she doesn’t get inside?”

Despite what might seem like a hot-and-cold relationship between Minny and me, rest assured, there is real love. When we go away to Tbilisi for a couple of days, I wonder how Minny is doing. I wonder how long her filtered water bowl will last. I speculate if she ate the buckwheat that we left out. Have no fear, if the buckwheat is done, our yard neighbor, Zurab, also puts out food. Minny and her cat family will have full bellies full of food.

Minny has gotten used to us and now seeks out the attention. When we come home from work, Minny is the first to greet me. She plunges down the mandarine tree bark and walks with me to the front steps of my 3-foot-wide porch. When we leave, Minny hurdles to ensure that we hear her meow goodbye. When we call her by her name, she runs up from the basement to our feet. Minny knows that she is loved. Minny loves us back too and stands on our porch’s railing to meow a “wonderful good morning Rawan and Justin” each day by making eye contact through our kitchen window.

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To the end of my service, I hope to see Minny’s face rain or shine. I hope to continue hearing her soft paw knocks on our front door for hugs and kisses. I hope this because to me, Minny is the sweetest and best kitten in the whole-wide-world.

 

 

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Last week, on Wednesday, I was trying to do some work at home and I could not concentrate. Every couple of minutes I got distracted by  constant purring and meowing. I was literally distracted by cuteness. On Wednesday evening, Justin and I became sudden “kitten parents” without our knowledge. In the one hour between I got home from work and the hour I had to prepare for dance class, two kittens must have dropped from the heavens from the grace of God onto our doorstep. At that moment in time, we had no clue as to where they came from.

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I mean, seriously, could you get any cuter?!

 

Our yard is small and it is easy to notice the slightest change. Coming home from work seemed as normal as ever. When Justin got home an hour later, I noticed that he was standing on the porch for a while. I opened the door and he was staring at two young kittens meowing at his feet. I saw it and nearly died from the amount of cuteness. In all seriousness, who does not love kittens and puppies?! If people did not love them, they would not create millions of calendars of puppies and kittens.

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Cuteness Overload! Each time we go outside this cuteness tries to sneak into our house.

I could not help myself, I picked up the kitten and started petting it. In the back of my mind, I heard the PCMO (the Peace Corps Medical Officer) yell at me, “RABIES! DO NOT PET THE KITTEN.” I was very careful so that the paws do not scratch me. I put the kittens down and went off to Georgian dance class. When I returned from dance class, the kittens were still there. Not only that, they must have realized that they loved me. They came up to me as I was approaching the main door. Did I suddenly become the kitten whisperer?

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Sup, kitten?!

In reality, I realized that Justin and I are probably the only two humans that have shown them kindness. They looked like they have been separated from their mother early and they are probably hungry. Justin took out a bowl and gave them some water. I took an old shirt and put it in a bucket outside to create a “warm home” for them of sorts. Last night was windy and rainy. I would have taken them inside, but I am allergic to cats. I am able to pet them for a couple of minutes in outdoor spaces, but I cannot live with them indoors.

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The kittens waited for me by the main steps to the house

Seven years ago when I was still living with my parents, my middle sister brought home a kitten. Within three days, I sneezed so much that my nose started bleeding! I had to hide in my room because the dander was everywhere, and my chest started to hurt. It is a gradual allergic reaction and it is very frustrating. However, at least, I was able to enjoy the kittens for a few minutes at a time outdoors.

In the meantime, I tried not getting attached. If you notice, this post is written in the past tense. Thus, I’m implying they are no longer here. Also, I failed at the “attached” thing. If I did not get attached, this blog post would not exist. Yet, here I am. We discovered the next day that the kittens belonged to our neighbor. Justin and I speculated as to why we had them for a day, but nonetheless, he purposely put them in our yard.

There have been so many animals that have come into our lives while living in our home in Georgia. A few months after we moved out on our own, we discovered a puppy one morning on our porch. I named him Spot and he was the calmest dog on the face of the planet. We fed him and petted him each moment we had a chance. Justin got into the habit of even bathing him. Our neighbors found the puppy and brought into our yard.

After it started growing and barking, the neighbors grew frustrated. One day I go to work in a rush and Spot barked at me for attention. I looked at Spot and yelled, “Hey, I love you, but I really got to go!” I did not pet him and ran out the door. That same day, Justin went to the pet store to see how much the vaccinations would cost now that it got old enough. The lady at the pet store said, “well, how much does your dog weigh?” Justin said, “I’ll be right back, I’ll go check at home and tell you.” Justin went home and Spot was nowhere to be found. Spot was gone forever.

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Justin fed Spot peanut butter. Spot was figuring out if he liked it or not.

The neighbors had given Spot to their relatives in some village while Justin was at the pet store and  I was at work. They did not even tell us that they were taking Spot. That morning was the last time I ever saw him. Spot may be dead or alive; I would never know. At least, we can visit Bono, our host family’s dog whenever we see our host family.

Months later, there were bunnies in our yard. Bunnies are not as friendly or warm to humans as children like to think. Justin attempted to grow an attachment to the bunnies, but they were not open to being petted. Regardless, we got used them trimming our yard from the ever growing grass. Several weeks go by and I saw my neighbor cutting tomatoes and other vegetables in an industrial size pot in the yard. That night, the bunnies were gone and so were their cage. Justin and I assumed that the bunnies were eaten that same night at some feast.

Last week, Justin calls me as I walking home from work to say, “by the way, we now have a rooster in our yard.” My reaction was, “huh, I wonder how long is that going to last.” After the dog and bunnies, the rooster for some reason did not surprise me. The rooster as it turns out also belongs to the same neighbor that owns the kittens. A couple of days ago, the neighbor thanked us for taking care of the rooster but still offered no explanation as to why the rooster was even there.

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Hello, Rooster! Are you able to mow the grass?

The three animals that still live with us are the three adult black, old cats. They are lazy and did not even kill the mice that were roaming around our house a couple of weeks ago. Out of all the animals, the three lazy old cats are probably my least favorite.

Regardless, I know that their disappearance was inevitable. My neighbors do not exactly communicate the livestock or pets with us when they come and go.